Why life must be beautiful?
I am interest to say and write this sentence “life is beautiful” cause it makes me feel that everything s going to be all right. Actually, this s being my favorite since I had read Arvan Pardiansyah’s book entitled Life is Beautiful years ago. It inspires me to make a new vision about how we look the world through our eyes.
In his book, Arvan said that it s important to change our view in facing every problem we had, like this simple story:
One day, there is an old lady, who always feel sad in every season, even dry and rainy, and it makes a young man feel compassion with her and ask, ”why do you look sad Mom?”.
This old lady answered,”I’ve two daughters, the eldest one sells her cotton shoes and the youngest sells umbrellas. When rainy comes I feel sad cause I am thinking about my eldest one, but when dry comes I feel sad too cause I am thinking about my young daughter”.
And the young man said,”now, what do u think if u change your mind. When rainy comes just think that your young daughter could be sell many umbrellas and when dry comes, please think that your another daughter could be sell many cotton shoes? I am sure u will be happy with that”.
And since that moment, the old lady always feels happy.
Reading this simple story makes me realize that life s not too complicated as our thinking. Everything s depend on ourselves. If we have an idea that it is a nice day, certainly everything is going to be nice, contrary with that, if we have a view that it is a bad day, without doubt, everything will be worse.
Arvan also said that there are 5 simple steps to build a life is beautiful’s thinking;
1. Change your view. Believe that nobody could be better without any problem in his life.
2. Think that s all small stuff.
3. Find your priority. It will help you to think the nearest point we had.
4. Do your best.
5. Consider about effective and efficient. The important key to enjoy our life is awareness. Aware of time we had and enjoy the process. Beautiful life means doing everything with full of consciousness and enjoy its every second.
Until now, I am trying to do these for my life and I m certain that u ill too. Because everybody needs their happiness, right? Life is too short to think about the negatives.
Want to try? ………………
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